Do you ever contemplate gender and sexual identity at all? Myself I'm like what is it even? Why does it even matter?

Oddly enough, they can create a sense of community.
Instead of just being weird or different, you have a word to put to it, and you can find others like you. You get the opportunity to understand it better, and be understood.
Sometimes they're just a conversational tool.

@AmbivalentFriability what if you fit nowhere? :(

@SW-User Then you just create a "new category" and give it a name :)

@drymer Nope. Im just Me

@SW-User If labels don't work for you, you don't have to use them. 🤷‍♀️
As far as lgbtq* stuff goes "queer" is a nice cover-all. It can mean whatever you want it to.

@AmbivalentFriability 💜💙