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SW-User
If only sexual activity was like porn movies. The woman is 100% into it, everyone has confidence and it's a perfect encounter.
It's not. It's a dance of physical activity, innuendo, and barely noticeable cues.
"No," "We shouldn't do this," or "stop" or any other cue should be a ball buster. It means activity stops until you get things sorted out.
It's not. It's a dance of physical activity, innuendo, and barely noticeable cues.
"No," "We shouldn't do this," or "stop" or any other cue should be a ball buster. It means activity stops until you get things sorted out.
SW-User
@SW-User if people would just be honest with each others intentions ,it would be much easier ...she expected him to be a mind reader and that is just silly , but at the same time he was too aggressive and that is creepy ...so moral of the story is just be upfront
SW-User
I had a girl cry during an encounter (well before any intercourse) and when I asked what was wrong she said "I wish we hadn't gone as far."
I said "all you have to say is stop." She said "I know."
i still felt horrible.
I said "all you have to say is stop." She said "I know."
i still felt horrible.
SW-User
@SW-User That was not your fault , she should have said stop ...
SW-User
@SW-User we dated for six months after that. So it’s not like it ruined anything between us.
It was just so honest, emotional, and surprising.
I am not sure if I miss those days or not.
It was just so honest, emotional, and surprising.
I am not sure if I miss those days or not.
SW-User
@SW-User i don't miss it