It hurts when u show your dark side to someone and trust them they wont leave and then *boom* they leave you stranded and leave a lifeless body of yours it realy hurtd
Depends on what you mean by "dark side" nobody should have to take bullying. Not saying that is you, but that is some people's dark side. If your dark side hurts others then it is up to you to change it, nobody can do that for you. I think it is a fairy tale to expect someone to embrace everything bad about a person, they may be able to accept that dark side and they may not. It isn't all about one person in a relationship it is suppose to be about two people who compromise and try to solve these issues together, some cannot do that. The thing is only we can work on our own issues with help if needed.
@Deadgirl I see, well some people cannot handle that either. You really have to meet someone special for that. We all are weak, really, but few feel like than can let themselves feel that vulnrability , it scares them, not fair, but often true. It is a rare gem that can push their own fears aside and care for another one who is fearful, very sad, but again usually true.
@Deadgirl I found life rarely is. We make the best of it we can or we keep wishing for things that do not exist, it sucks to grow up honestly it really does and is why do not envy younger people. The world is hard and that is unfair, but that is the reality. It was a different world when I was young, but still hard, it is hard getting older as well, because things are changing so fast and ideas are so different that it is hard to relate. But,our peer group is more supportive at an older age, I think, and that helps.
i know that feeling all too well. you aren’t alone in that experience. bottom line, humans are shit, feelings are temporary, promises are empty, people change, nothing lasts forever