would you forgive someone after they'd ruined your life?

I have several times
I began with my Mom ,then on to 2 ex wives
and finally myself

Unfortunately I'm sure I would

Nope. I don’t forgive anyone that has wronged me or screwed me over. Why would I? So they can do it to me all over again.

I will forgive them—not for them but for me. And I sure as hell won’t forget!😁

I have in the past a few times.