is it stupid to fall in love or to catch feelings in general?

I know that one can't control it...but given the amount of pain we all go through because of love, doesn't it make more sense to only have no strings attached relationships or at least live a polyamorous lifestyle so that one does not get too pre-occupied with a single individual?

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djjohnson · 41-45, M

and what would be the intended consequences of such a lifestyle? Without developing emotional connections how would people learn to understand others feelings. How can you understand an emotion you have never experienced.