I guessss I would confront them about how I feel they may be unaware of the situation, if it were to keep happening after we’ve discussed it I would end it because they clearly don’t care given by their actions
@Strawberryblonde It is not nagging to communicate. You're not nagging when you address issues that you feel necessary to address. If you don't care that you are being taken for granted then I would say .. Don't say anything .Cheat or ignore it . Pretend that everything is ok. Some people want to be taken for granted. And for others there isn't anyway in hell they are going to just accept it. For me its healthy to discuss not nag.
You should say...let's talk , then you explain to her or whomever what you are feeling and why/ If you feel taken granted. State it plainly and clearly.if you have any ideas on how it can be rectified or how you would like to feel ...speak up if you feel the relationship is worth it. If its a true partnership your partner should understand and work with you on possible suggestions and or solutions to improve or make you feel less taken for granted. At the very least you will have discussed the issue and not let it linger.