How can I have a threesome with people or an orgy

It would appear you hava no skills. Perhaps finding someone with the same desires you have would help.

MikeSp · 56-60, M

@SW-User What he said. But if its not an organized party, and you are going alone, meet them in public first and let others know where you are going. Take a shot of their car license tag and mail it to your trusted friend before you go behind closed doors.