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By making a special effort to make others happy, even if it's just eye contact and a simple smile in the grocery store. Doing this on a regular basis will make you a much happier person. Also, set down and make a list of ACHIEVABLE goals, treat yourself to something you like for each goal you achieve.
littlepinklotus · 41-45, F
@Coyotedave611 well I got the first part down good. I guess I need to work on my list. 😊
Coyotedave611 · M
@littlepinklotus 30 years ago, I told co-workers I was going to build a beautiful house in the Black Hills of South Dakota, I set a very long list of objectives that were fairly realistic, I kept saving, worked towars minor promotions at work and kept getting higher paying jobs...I sent for a variety of house plans, visited a variety of locations in the Black Hills....It took 7 years, a lot of self discilpline but ended up with a three story geodesic home nestled in the woods. I wish you well, remember, "If you dream it, you can do it" TX for BA😜
littlepinklotus · 41-45, F
@Coyotedave611 Congrats thats awesome!!! I will remember that.
Coyotedave611 · M
@littlepinklotus I taught Behavior Modification for many years and incorporated "Life changing Goals and Objectives" I have nearly an entire wall from former students who achieved what they dreamed for. One hint. If you get stuck on one particular objective and just can't attain it, break it down into a series of easier steps. Also, TALK IT UP, no matter who it is, and matter if they laugh, you will be networking and identifying folks coming into your life who can, and will help you. You will go far!
littlepinklotus · 41-45, F
@Coyotedave611 thank you very much hon. I appricate the help.
Coyotedave611 · M
@littlepinklotus Very welcome darling, just try and pass this advise along to the younger. Best of luck!