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Because I'm blind and naive, I have this unfathomable idea of them not being a jerk
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When you fall in love you only see their good nature. It's biology.@Stark
@Spoiledbrat that's not falling inlove then. Falling inlove is seeing their good nature and bad nature and accepting it completely.
What I experienced was infatuation not falling inlove
What I experienced was infatuation not falling inlove
Spoiledbrat · F
Yes it is and you can read it for ourself in any encyclopedia. @Stark
@Spoiledbrat lol. That's ridiculous and false. If you love someone you don't ignore their flaws or bad side. You're aware of them and accept them. You're not blinded by them. That's called infatuation. Please link your resources.
Spoiledbrat · F
It's called "in love". @Stark
@Spoiledbrat it's called your opinion which is all that it is.
Spoiledbrat · F
It's called college text book. @Stark
@Spoiledbrat lol. When you find this college text book to support or prove your point then we can move on from it being just an opinion. Until then that's all it is.
Spoiledbrat · F
I HAVE IT. I've read it several times and written a paper on it and have fallen deeply and madly in love. Deal with it or get lost. @Stark
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@Spoiledbrat why are you being so defensive if you're right ? I still have no proof of it. 😮 Nor do I believe it
Spoiledbrat · F
I will get it out just for you. @Stark
Spoiledbrat · F
I found this for now.
https://books.google.com/books?id=KNyvQxE466kC&pg=PA94&lpg=PA94&dq=falling+love+and+boundaries&source=bl&ots=RzM90q3DY3&sig=vkcvSufQy-y3XfzZpGFJN9e4d4I&hl=en&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjjh_G_t7rWAhUP_WMKHQGTAxkQ6AEIOzAE#v=onepage&q=falling%20love%20and%20boundaries&f=false@Spoiledbrat
https://books.google.com/books?id=KNyvQxE466kC&pg=PA94&lpg=PA94&dq=falling+love+and+boundaries&source=bl&ots=RzM90q3DY3&sig=vkcvSufQy-y3XfzZpGFJN9e4d4I&hl=en&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjjh_G_t7rWAhUP_WMKHQGTAxkQ6AEIOzAE#v=onepage&q=falling%20love%20and%20boundaries&f=false@Spoiledbrat
@Spoiledbrat its talks about ego boundaries and then making love. What/where exactly do you want me to read that proves your point ??
Spoiledbrat · F
I said read that for now. Read it all. Sexual attraction is part of why people fall in love. Do you have an education? @Stark
@Spoiledbrat we're not discussing sexual attraction we're discussing being blind when inlove, why you think that when inlove you only see the good side of people and not the bad side that's what you said was in your college book. I'm not going to sit here and read this whole book, you can either direct me to the passage you claim to be in there or either agree to disagree. 🤷♀️ Sexual attraction was never once brought up in this conversation.
Spoiledbrat · F
I thought I did. It was a passage in a book. @Stark
Spoiledbrat · F
@Spoiledbrat 🙄🤦🏾♀️ Good god. Girl I'm over this conversation. I shouldn't have to explain to you what you should be proving to me. Bye
Spoiledbrat · F
Don't get mad at me because you don't know what love is. Ask any educated person here. @Spoiledbrat