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This depends partially on how old she is.
Generally I'd be stressed out and let her know how I feel but I wouldn't give her a lecture about it. Obviously she already knows what she did, or didn't do. It could be entirely possible that she used protection and it just happened on accident. It's better to listen and try to use reason and tell her what her options are than blow up about something that can't be changed.
I would 100% help raise the baby if she decided to keep it so she could finish school.
Generally I'd be stressed out and let her know how I feel but I wouldn't give her a lecture about it. Obviously she already knows what she did, or didn't do. It could be entirely possible that she used protection and it just happened on accident. It's better to listen and try to use reason and tell her what her options are than blow up about something that can't be changed.
I would 100% help raise the baby if she decided to keep it so she could finish school.
@SW-User Abortion could change it maybe?
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@fdbgljkfsdbgkljfsdbgkljS I mean you can't reverse time and make it so that it hasn't happened. If she came to me and said, "Mom, I don't want to keep this baby." that's one thing, but I would absolutely not suggest an abortion to her. That could be misconstrued as me being angry/not wanting to deal with the problem at hand.
