Why do so many men think women are playing hard to get when they literally just don't like you?

Idk like I could mever see myself hunting down a guy when he said no multiple times. Like?

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JimiJames · 41-45, M

You outa know men pick, it works out. Let the girl pick she picks a wrong guy every time. Every time it's the same kind of loser too and the girl just keeps picking that same wrong kind of guy.

Facts of modern life. Can't fight it. Might as well go bounce from wrong woman to wrong woman.

bijouxbroussard · F

@JimiJames The one time I chose, I was happy. My mother chose and she and my father just celebrated 61 years. And plenty of men have chosen unwisely, focused on [b]looks[/b] over substance.

JimiJames · 41-45, M

@bijouxbroussard I didn't say it can't work out for submissive men.

JimiJames · 41-45, M

And besides. If a woman want's a headstrong decisive man and then starts off rejecting headstrong decisive men what you end up with is going to be a guy who goes along to get along and an unhappy girl.

JimiJames · 41-45, M

Congratulations to you and your mom just the same. Stayin together that long is a blessin to a family.

bijouxbroussard · F

@JimiJames Thank you. But you do understand that just because a man isn't a controlling bully, that doesn't make him "submissive", right ? Technically, the woman always decides by having the right of refusal.