is it weird that i don't get the 'kiligs' and all the butterflies in this relationship that i currently have..?!

Happy 😊 for you

awww.... when is the wedding? I have gravy boat I need to regift. 😏

Not weird at all. Maybe the anxiety was partially causing the butterflies in the past lol. It's not really that good for the nervous system. 😅 But if the reason is that you're not truly into the person, then it's different, because attraction is super important in a relationship.

calm and contentment is key imo nobody needs to me elated constantly

btw i never heard that term before