Peter1985 · 36-40, M
totally
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
But I'm a married woman
StygianKohlrabi · M
@Prettybratbi1tch you are a real housewife of the Bahamas

YoMomma ·
Thankfully not everyone does that 😒
StygianKohlrabi · M
@YoMomma yeah especially not me 😬 🏃♂
YoMomma ·
@StygianKohlrabi ^5 😅
Yeah. Or an extreme form of needing validation.
Nanori · F
If you subconsciously need to be judged as a way of self harm then yeah
StygianKohlrabi · M
@Nanori I don't know if it's self harm or a general obsession
Nanori · F
@StygianKohlrabi that self harm bit is negotiable, but it's often the need to be
Judged (broken or no compass)
Seen (loneliness)
Approved (always in doubt)
Trying to sooth their feelings of inferiority by showing polished cherry picked parts of their life (scared)
Etc
That's according to my limited observation of the people I've seen do it. 😁
Judged (broken or no compass)
Seen (loneliness)
Approved (always in doubt)
Trying to sooth their feelings of inferiority by showing polished cherry picked parts of their life (scared)
Etc
That's according to my limited observation of the people I've seen do it. 😁
StygianKohlrabi · M
@Nanori yeah that probably sums it up. makes more sense than looking at them as attention hoz.