kinda sad to know that of all the friends in your circle, you're often the last one to know about what's happening around you..

Birds of the same feathers flock together.. So if yoire not as socialy gracefull or as savvy as yoir peers you will be left out and naturally filtered out into a group where all your left with is with people of a similar calibre as you. Its a natural process of life and in fact is fractal meaning this behavior goes down to the cellular level and happens inside our bodies where the least desirable and faulty cells get pushed out naturaly by the stronger healthier cells.