If all 50 us states start arguing which one started the argument?

At 19, I had to be. But #1 kept telling my brother about her first husband and how she "hated" him, and he "wanted to help her". But once she was divorced and she began running around with him, then married, she got bored being married and began chasing other boyfriends. Her first husband would track her down (they had a 7-year-old daughter together) and want to get her back. God, it was a mess back then.