I've always been self conscious. Not because I was molested, but because I was overweight. I didn't dress like a dude to avoid male attention. In fact, I didn't try to avoid men. I didn't have any issues with them. I wasn't scared of them. But I didn't like dressing too girly, I didn't like it when people called me a young woman. I didn't like it when people saw me as a woman. The word just felt dirty to me. I didn't want to be associated with fertility, sex, or femininity. But I think that was because of something that was specifically said while I was being molested, not because of the actual molestation.

Sorry to hear that