My opinion? Do what you need to do. Your cousin won’t be there.

I had a run like the awful one you describe. I don’t go to funerals anymore. I simply cannot.

Send a letter to be read. Nobody who cared at all about you would want you to “respect” them by jumping on a mental health bobsled run.

Sorry to hear of your losses. Be strong friend ❤

I am so sorry for your loss 🥀🥀🥀

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