You cannot just say "found something" without saying what it is 🙁

:P

@Lasting Sunshine, I totally agree, I never tell anything I discuss with others and 7 years is a long time

Ok lets say we did things on vid calls.. Im a very conservative girl.. I never wore low cut clothes that exposes certain areas but ive let him see some parts that shudnt be exposed.. It took him 5 yrs to convince me.. And i found out that since last yr he had a gf .. He kept telling me is single.. I dont want to be with such a liar and user anymore.. im just hurting right now.. I never expected this.. Ive also left him a message before i blocked him and he read it.. So yea it hurts

Sometimes we fight for silly things but we see it big. And that's what she said, it was a silly thing (for us) but was big for her. But I can't understand with that 7 years of friendship, how could you block without saying a word? 🤔 I can't even do that in just 1 year of friendship.

Tell me, I will keep your secret :p 🙊

If he has been a friend for 7 years, surely you should have spoken to him about it. Don't you think he deserved that much after such a long time?

You're up to 5 now, how many people need to ask before you say? Or are you just winding people in for fun?

We now have long sharp noses from the curiosity and sticking in your business, you brought it to yourself👃

She doesn't have to tell us why, she should just think if that reason is worth losing a friend

Yes but you should tell us first so we can be sure

I think you would feel so much better if you got it off your chest then we could give you more advice...
She's gone very quite...hang on... Did someone pm her??

Remind me not to invest that much time in you😊 with out at least why😊

That's along time to have an online friend!
I hope you feel better soon.

Can you give more details?

You should tell him at least why you´ve blocked him. That´s an act of fairness.

I am sorry that happened.

awz :(

7 years is a long time to be friends. Was what you found so bad you could not work past it?

Edit: Scratch what I said. I read the whole thread after. You let him know your feelings and blocked him for your own preservation. Don't beat yourself up about it. This is not a silly reason at all.

But if it's a silly reason, why lose 7 years of friendship because of it? Anyway, if that's your choice I think you should tell him.

Spit it out lass

Well, I'm glad you told us because no one should carry that alone. He is a using drip and deserves to be blocked. I'm sorry you are feeling so much hurt. Anyone in your situation that had been treated that way and had lost a long term friendship would be.

@ kindashyone: That´s exactly my opinion!

2 in the catch net. Come on guys you have to struggle before being landed!

What was the thing?

Was he married?

Haha. Wat did u find out

Can you give us a hint?

Is he on here?

It must have been bad for you to do it , don't beat yourself up about it ,it's for the best

Should i tell him why im blocking him?

Well that's not silly...

:(

You made a mistake, just don't repeat it, forgive yourself and keep him blocked.

I cant tell everyone here.. And its just a silly reason.. But for me its big..

And that wasn't a silly thing. Let's count how many judgmental people were here, lol.

Sorry to hear, Chis. Should've never done it but he was a bastard.

Shit! That sucks! He doesn't deserve an explanation, keep him blocked.