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TheunderdogofNY · 36-40, M
This is why I always give genuinely from the heart with no expectations of a return. Because I’ve come to learn if you lend people things sometimes they don’t respect that they should pay it back. That’s why it’s either I got it or I don’t. This way I have no feelings invested if I give someone something.
nursedawn87 · 36-40, F
@TheunderdogofNY but if it comes to causing someone’s reputation who is innocent to be destroyed only to cause harm, wouldn’t you advise that person who has given everything freely to ask for some people to pay back what they took from the guy?
TheunderdogofNY · 36-40, M
@nursedawn87 No. Either give from your heart with no expectation of a return or not at all. This is this best way to protect yourself in my opinion especially emotionally. If you've given freely then that is at your discretion. If you did not give freely then you must deal with the potential emotions from that.
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