I Have Crushes On People I Shouldn't

I have a crush on my best friend named Maddie. I've liked her since 8th grade but I didn't notice I had feelings for her around that time. She has a boyfriend though so I can't have/confess to her at all. I love everything about her. I'm just a silly girl in love with a girl I can't even have. 😹 But yet I can't get over her, no matter how hard I try. I wish I could make flowers out of pipe cleaners, pony beads, duct tape, and plastic heart gems, for Maddie that is. 💐

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adshaw · 36-40, M

Enjoy her company and be a good friend. That is how you can use the love.

KandiGhostcat · 22-25, F

I know. There's different kinds of love. Like when you love a baby kitten.

adshaw · 36-40, M

I'm aware of that. What I mean is use your love for her for good; even though you would rather go further.

Danez · M

Don't torture yourself. She's got a boyfriend so she obviously doesn't share the same attraction that you have. Just cherish the close friendship you have because you could make a good relationship turn awkward.

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Danez · M

@KandiGhostcat: it's best to try to get beyond your feelings for your own sake

KandiGhostcat · 22-25, F

@DanC101: Yeah. There will be someone else I'll fall in love with one day. Whether they'll be a boy or girl I will find someone else that I like. Best thing I can do is wish that Maddie will be happy with her boyfriend and have a great love life too.

Danez · M

@KandiGhostcat: there ya go. You're gonna be fine plus who know what will happen in your and your bff's future.

midnightshadows · 26-30, F

if it's meant to be, it will be :)

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