At what point in a relationship is it considered ok to say you love them? In your opinion obviously

Less than a week is way too short. It can be easy to get caught up in the moment with all the hormones and feelings floating around. Love is something that you build over time and not something to be taken lightly. It varies from person to person and situation but you need to share a lot more experiences before you could classify a real genuine connection

I feel like 4 days isn't enough time to tell them you love them. I'd say like wait a few months in so its special and doesn't seem too clingy

Saying it- dies that change anything. Probably not so go ahead when you feel it. Ang rember at your age it will likely burn out fast. Which is okay.

Most people won't agree, but I'd say a year or two [u]OR[/u] when you are sure you know who he is, inside and out

On the first date after you steal him / her a blue French horn.

It's okay at any point as long as they mean it.