if you truly loved someone, can you ever stop loving them
I truely loved but she didn't loved me as much as i did her.it showed.. I just want these feelings to stop. It's been 6 months she wasn't good for me
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Syktur · 26-30, M
When I was nineteen I dated this girl who I was crazy for, and honestly thought about marrying her. She was the only girl I ever loved, even now, and I'm 21 now. She died of leukemia and I'm going to be honest, I will never stop loving her, even if I find someone new. Love like that doesn't just die.
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Don't worry.... In a while, you will be happy about all that love being kept inside you, with a calmer feeling... (Of course this will happen after a relationship has ended, or has continued for a long long time) give it time.
@wudifu: thank you.
wudifu · 46-50, M
sorry dude feelings like that wont just go away.....i had a affair with someone many thousand of miles away and she cheated on me after a year and my feeling for her just wont go away ..........and btw........everything and everyone u meet in life is for some kind of reason
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wudifu · 46-50, M
it wont ......better to keep your mind active and meet people to stray your mind away from her.......but with me the more i did that the more the universe send me signs of her all over the place
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I feel that once you truly love someone you always do. Sometimes you just have to make a choice to no longer allow them to hurt you.
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I'm in that situation right now.
I think it's possible..? There are studies on how love works in the brain. I think you can train yourself like one of Pavlov's dogs to stop loving her.
I think it's possible..? There are studies on how love works in the brain. I think you can train yourself like one of Pavlov's dogs to stop loving her.
wudifu · 46-50, M
in other words keep her as a friend and just live with that fact that how u feeling about her is not your mind but it is your heart talking to you