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If there was one thing, or one aspect about yourself you could change, what would that be?

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I would like to change how I am in a relationship. I'm a pleaser, and it's not a good quality.

That wasn't a self serving compliment. It's totally a deficit, not an asset.

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Grasshopper25 · 31-35, M

You're a pleaser? So you like to do things for other people to satisfy them right? Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't that what a pleaser is? That's a good quality to have

CassandraFemale17 · 26-30, F

It isn't always good, because pleasers become mainly attracted to the needy ones. Eventually, we find ourselves in the same boat as always with our own emotional needs being unmet

Grasshopper25 · 31-35, M

Hmm. Interesting point you make. You need another pleaser ☺

SW-User

i dont know i get stepped on a lot by others and not accepted. so dont know what qualities i need to change

LadyWioness · 56-60, F

It's not you, Hootie. If people treat you bad, there's something wrong with THEM. However, you don't have to tolerate it.
The hard part is assertively telling them that.

tnjazz · 70-79, M

I am what I am. There's nothing wrong with being a pleaser unless people are taking advantage of you

Abbenthewarwolf · 18-21, M

Have control over my bladder. Which I never really did.

SW-User

I wish I was better at letting go and moving on

CassandraFemale17 · 26-30, F

Good answer. I think most people can relate to that

LadyWioness · 56-60, F

I would like to be more confident in myself.

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