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If there was one thing, or one aspect about yourself you could change, what would that be?

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I would like to change how I am in a relationship. I'm a pleaser, and it's not a good quality.

That wasn't a self serving compliment. It's totally a deficit, not an asset.

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Grasshopper25 · 31-35, M

You're a pleaser? So you like to do things for other people to satisfy them right? Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't that what a pleaser is? That's a good quality to have

CassandraFemale17 · 26-30, F

It isn't always good, because pleasers become mainly attracted to the needy ones. Eventually, we find ourselves in the same boat as always with our own emotional needs being unmet

Grasshopper25 · 31-35, M

Hmm. Interesting point you make. You need another pleaser ☺