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A stranger of the opposite gender messages your inbox for personal information. What would you comfortably share?

Poll - Total Votes: 23
Name
Phone Numbet
Email
Access to your Hangout or What'sapp
Any of the above, it just doesn't matter
None of the above
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You may vote on multiple answers.
Someone you have never met before inboxed you.
Do you have a number of messages or amount of time
You wait before it gets personal.
Could a troll use that personal info against you?
GunFinger · F
Name is fine. It won't hurt. It's like hearing my name being called at Starbucks.☺️
Pfuzylogic · M
I do that!
Magenta · F
None of the above, with a capital N. 😏
Pfuzylogic · M
@Mirage I had a young lady come up to me and asked me for my WhatsApp phone number and so when I turned her down I decided to present this to everyone so that I knew what the norms were. 😊
SW-User
first name..
Maybe after I get to know them and if I feel comfortable.. my kik.

I've given my email out after several years of communication.
and my full name and address after three years.. but only to one person so far..
Pfuzylogic · M
You do seem very careful and I am sure for good reason.
SW-User
it's the Internet.. it's hard to trust anyone but the people who I've shared personal information with all turned out to be great..
Pfuzylogic · M
@onestarrynight: I totally agree that some of the relationships that are started at this site can be incredibly rewarding
JarJarBoom · 41-45, F
I only share my first name, but once I build some rapport and trust I will slowly reveal some aspects of my personal stuff to them.
JarJarBoom · 41-45, F
@KingofPizza: first it was my netflix password...now this 😭
KingofPizza2 · 36-40, M
@JarJarBoom: But I thought you'd LIKE me deleting your queue and replacing it with all those "Meet the Spartans" type movies!
JarJarBoom · 41-45, F
@KingofPizza: yes, I enjoyed "not another teen movie" recommendations..thanks.
Peaches · F
Of course a troll could use info against you! I share my first name and that's about it!
Peaches · F
@Pfuzylogic: Usually, but the thing with the internet is ya can't see expression, it can lead to misunderstandings sometimes.
Pfuzylogic · M
@sweetpea: Isn't that so true. I have seen so may misunderstandings because you couldn't see the nonverbal cues that we take for granted in face to face communication!
Peaches · F
@Pfuzylogic: Yes, so it takes a bit longer I feel. 🤔
LucyFuhr · 56-60, F
I'm wondering what kind of person gives personal info out to a stranger in the first place?
Pfuzylogic · M
@LucyFuhr There are people that take their communication "offline" of SW. There is also a lot of fraud that takes place offline.
LucyFuhr · 56-60, F
@Pfuzylogic: Your question specifically asked about a [b]stranger[/b] messaging for info and not someone they've taken "offline".

Ultimately, we're all adults who know better...and we've all heard the horror stories too. If one chooses to open themselves up to that, they better be prepared for whatever comes of it; good or bad.
Pfuzylogic · M
@LucyFuhr: I am talking about a stranger trying to start the relationship offline within the first few questions/comments. It usually ends up with that person trying to get money. It is a weary process so I cut it short.
I was just curious how people in this community of SimilarWorlds handle this request for personal information i.e. Social norms.
Probably none of the above
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
@CallmeHopelessNotRomantic: I know! Me too
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
@CallmeHopelessNotRomantic: just because the screen says they are opposite gender, does not mean in actuality they are!
Pfuzylogic · M
You can't be too careful or take the info back.
SW-User
None of the above. I'll talk, alright. Until I get bored, or they get bored.
Pfuzylogic · M
That is the safest way for sure.
Bubbles · 36-40, F
I will give my name and general location.
Pfuzylogic · M
I just did first name and state and they were upset. It seemed reasonable.
Bubbles · 36-40, F
That's what I share, first name and state. Everyone has different levels of privacy, as you can see by the replies here.
Pfuzylogic · M
@Bubbles: actually I think this can serve a purpose for people knew here to get an idea what they can share yeah I think personal comfort with what you share is very important
MaliaAgain · 36-40, F
random strangers dont usually get even a hi back
MaliaAgain · 36-40, F
@3503501a: what if i dont want to?
3503501a · 41-45, M
Because u are being flagged like a billion of times
MaliaAgain · 36-40, F
why? cause you are dumb?
Rutterman · 46-50, M
I'll share my first name and general location, which I make no secret of. Additional information, such as my email address, is only provided to people I've gotten to know.
Pfuzylogic · M
Prudence can be of the upmost importance in protecting needed privacy!
SW-User
Anyone can use anything against me if I'm willing to tell them.
But I don't usually tell strangers anything but my name and age. They're up for everyone to see anyway.
Pfuzylogic · M
You are pretty transparent with name and age!
Cierzo · M
None. Why should I share personal information with some unknown person, male or female?
Cierzo · M
@Pfuzylogic: What seems logical to me is that you may share your real name and another way to be in touch after you have talked to the other person and known each other a bit, not before.
Pfuzylogic · M
@Cierzo: I think that the relationship becomes a very important part of it
Cierzo · M
@Pfuzylogic: Agree
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
I'd share my name, it's really common. Nothing else at any point ever though, even if we become close.
Pfuzylogic · M
I see that. People can misuse what you trust to them.
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
Best to err on the side of caution
Pfuzylogic · M
@Flenflyys: I totally agree you really don't have an idea of who is on here
3503501a · 41-45, M
Talk and get to no the person before u share contact info etc but do talk don't just there masturbating or with ur thumb up ur fucking ass
3503501a · 41-45, M
Flagged again
Pfuzylogic · M
@3503501a: 😂😂😂
Please quit you are too funny
3503501a · 41-45, M
Flagged again
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
Where is the none of the above option?
Pfuzylogic · M
Good point. I just added it
SW-User
Pfuzylogic · M
I remember that back in the 90s as the typical question for Internet Relay Chat (IRC)!
SW-User
yup lol
KingofPizza2 · 36-40, M
I guess a first name? It would depend how they asked for it.

Also they can have my SSN because I use LIFELOCK! :P
Pfuzylogic · M
Lol you are quite brave. Want to see if they can get by!
KingofPizza2 · 36-40, M
Exactly... I need to get my money's worth, make sure they at least have a few ID theft attempts to stop.
Im not sure how trolls do what they do, but I don't just give out info to ppl, i'm kinda scared that way.

 
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