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If one of your parents shouts most of the time at you and siblings , or they just complain or criticise you most of the time..

And you just naturally avoid them because you know how it would go, I mean how the heck can you deal with it? Even when you do not understand why that parent is like that towards you and your siblings and when you try to talk to them about it , they do not want to listen. The negativity inside the house is unbelievable when they're around and fear is always there. How can a person deal with this seriously ?

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yellowstone

I dealt with sexual abuse and both mental and verbal abuse for years growing up. It made me fearful of everything, timid, and insecure. It's taken years to heal and gain confidence in myself.

Starz93 · F

I'm sorry you been through that. Bless you, you are strong ❤️

yellowstone

@starz93: thank you very much. I'm proud to be a warrior of sorts.

Spitbak · 56-60, M

🤔My best bet, keep avoiding the heat,especially if it only leads to more grief! If you can, find out what it is about them that is making them treat you bad.(it could be personal crap from their own past or maybe they worry too much and don't know how to deal with the job of parenting)Maybe you have an aunt or uncle who might have some info that could help!🤔

tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F

Getting your own place is one option

Another is to make it clear you will not communicate or listen to them when they are shouting.Tell them that their negativety is lowering everyones moral.

SW-User

Sorry to hear that. This is the house where we get most of our composer to deal with out world. I wish peace at every home.

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