If one of your parents shouts most of the time at you and siblings , or they just complain or criticise you most of the time..

And you just naturally avoid them because you know how it would go, I mean how the heck can you deal with it? Even when you do not understand why that parent is like that towards you and your siblings and when you try to talk to them about it , they do not want to listen. The negativity inside the house is unbelievable when they're around and fear is always there. How can a person deal with this seriously ?