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Nefarious · 26-30, M
Our parents have a lot of pull over us. They are where we are supposed to get our confidence from. If they talk down to us, it's very damaging.
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CuriousMind · F
@badazzbasicbich: it needs work.
Nefarious · 26-30, M
I know this first hand. But it has to be done. Can't live life feeling worthless. Otherwise it isn't worth it
We are who we are through our personal experiences. It's not easy I know but confidence can be repaired. I once didn't have confidence to just breathe now I want to live life with all its ups and downs and inbetweens. Have faith in oneself to find oneself
GoddessDiabolica · 26-30, F
They fuck you up, your mum and dad.
They may not mean to, but they do.
They fill you with the faults they had
And add some extra, just for you.
But they were fucked up in their turn
By fools in old-style hats and coats,
Who half the time were soppy-stern
And half at one another’s throats.
Man hands on misery to man.
It deepens like a coastal shelf.
Get out as early as you can,
And don’t have any kids yourself.
"This Be the Verse" by Philip Larkin
They may not mean to, but they do.
They fill you with the faults they had
And add some extra, just for you.
But they were fucked up in their turn
By fools in old-style hats and coats,
Who half the time were soppy-stern
And half at one another’s throats.
Man hands on misery to man.
It deepens like a coastal shelf.
Get out as early as you can,
And don’t have any kids yourself.
"This Be the Verse" by Philip Larkin
bijouxbroussard · F
Parental abuse is a tough experience to overcome, although people do. Usually some form of counseling helps.
Pimpedcheerios88 · 31-35, F
@bijouxbroussard: yeah but it was awhile ago and I was mainly focusing on separating my feelings from my mom's.
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@Pimpedcheerios88: takes years to deal with.
Sadie14 · F
Why wouldn't it? The way our parents raise us actually does affect us in many ways.
newstu · 61-69, M
sadly sometimes that stuff takes a long time to resolve
GoldenWorm · 51-55, M
It's probably like why I don't talk to my mother if I can avoid it.