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Are you tied to a current existence?

Does anyone else feel like they want to escape the life they are alread living, like change it somehow? but I don't know how to change it to the best of my ability...
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ABCDEF7 · M Best Comment
Wanting to change and wanting to escape are two different things.

First you have to understand yourself and what you really want.
sree251 · 41-45, M
@ABCDEF7
Wanting to change and wanting to escape are two different things.

Why do you say that? CelticRose may be in an unhappy situation (i.e. lousy job or bad marriage). To escape from such a situation is to bring about change in the life she is living.
ABCDEF7 · M
@sree251 Unfortunately the doesn't works the way we want. There can be people and circumstances that do not match our comfort. We can not escape every circumstances and person, we need to face them and change wherever required.


But if you think you need to change your life, you first need to understand yourself and you may need to change your thinking.
CelticRose · 36-40, F
@sree251 I do agree, but I can see the other's point of view. I'm in a situation where my soul feels unhappy, but its battling both sides of me that's complicated. I like my partner but he's been a bit distant lately. There's no zing there anymore. It feels like the motivation has gone completely from the old connection.
ABCDEF7 · M
@CelticRose I can understand. You can try finding new ways to bring the spark in your relationship. Search for the root causes of this distance and work on the remedies. I hope you will succeed.
sree251 · 41-45, M
@ABCDEF7
We can not escape every circumstances and person, we need to face them and change wherever required.

Perhaps, not every circumstance and person; however, more often than not, we can end unhappy relationships or situations at will.

But if you think you need to change your life, you first need to understand yourself and you may need to change your thinking.

This implies self-doubt. You won't be able to sell this approach to Donald Trump.
ABCDEF7 · M
@sree251
Perhaps, not every circumstance and person;

That is your perspective. I think you have not read and understood what OP is referring to.

It doesn't implies self doubt. It just doesn't forces an opinion, and let the person take it depending on circumstances they better understand.

I am not here to sell anything to you or Trump. Nor I replied to your post initially.