it cant all be just coincidence...so much happening at once right now in my life, all in the same week

for 18 months ive tried to get my house exterior painted; then my mother dies after cancer diagnosis 8 weeks ago; and my car has flat tire in a storm, clothes washer also needs repair. actually last year while she was active and appeared healthy i was in a dark place grieving. then in january the darkness went away. i actually mourned her loss in advance while rest of family is now on a emotional roller coaster...what a lousy birthday today is. the day is nearly over and i just remembered