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Do you think this is good advice, or not? [Spirituality & Religion]

[b]Today's Gospel reading:[/b]

[b]Luke 6: 27-38[/b]

Jesus said to his disciples: "To you who hear me, I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you; bless those who curse you and pray for those who maltreat you. When someone slaps you on one cheek, turn and give him the other; when someone takes your coat, let him have your shirt as well. Give to all who beg from you. When a man takes what is yours, do not demand it back. Do to others what you would have them do to you. If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. If you do good to those who do good to you, how can you claim any credit? Sinners do as much. If you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what merit is there in it for you? Even sinners lend to sinners, expecting to be repaid in full.

"Love your enemy and do good; lend without expecting repayment. Then will your recompense be great. You will rightly be called sons of the Most High, since he himself is good to the ungrateful and the wicked.

"Be compassionate, as your Father is compassionate. Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Pardon, and you shall be pardoned. Give, and it shall be given to you. Good measure pressed down, shaken together, running over, will they pour into the fold of your garment. For the measure you measure with will be measured back to you."

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I have to wonder, was this not meant to be taken literally? Was Jesus exaggerating to make a point? If not, this seems far too much to ask of anyone. Actually, I was raised to be this way, and it has not served me well at all. I have tried to show mercy to people who have hurt me, but I haven't been shown much mercy in return. I've tried to refrain from judging those who have hurt me most, but I have felt judged by them.

I know that there is much wisdom to be found in the Bible, and I do agree with the part about doing unto others as you would have others do unto you. But I have to admit, I was a bit troubled when I heard this Gospel reading today. What are your thoughts about this?
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Syktur · 26-30, M
Of course it’s good advice. How do you think the cycle of evil goes on? One of the ways is getting revenge. Doing bad to those who do bad to you. When you do good to those who have done wrong to you, you remove a little more bad from this world.
TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F
@Syktur Sometimes, with some people. Trying to get revenge will probably keep the cycle of evil going. But does that mean that we have to allow people to hurt us again, after they have shown themselves to be untrustworthy?
Syktur · 26-30, M
@TeresaRudolph71 no. You don’t have to allow others to hurt you. You keep a distance, when and if you can.
TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F
@Syktur I've had to learn that the hard way. Sadly that wasn't the way I was raised. I had a "friend" for many years, when I was a kid, who often treated me badly and took advantage of me, and there were many times when I said I had had enough and I was done trying to be her friend. But every time, my mom would guilt and browbeat me, sometimes over a period of several months, into taking her back and letting her do the same stuff again. My mom felt very sorry for her and seemed to feel that I owed her my unconditional friendship. I actually felt that my mom cared more about her than she cared about me. It might sound strange, but I got so that I almost felt as thought it was selfish of me to stand up for myself and cut ties with people who treated me poorly. But I think I've finally learned. Letting go of bitterness is a little harder, but maybe that's partly because of everything that I was forced to put up with.
Plus, you testify that you can do all things through Christ who strengthens us. Anyone can be a bully, but these are insecure people.@Syktur
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@TeresaRudolph71 Teresa, I'm so sorry you suffered these things. I know that was awfully hurtful to deny your own feelings, especially when you knew you were in the right. God bless you.
TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F
@LadyGrace Thank you.
@TeresaRudolph71 [quote]But does that mean that we have to allow people to hurt us again, after they have shown themselves to be untrustworthy?[/quote]

No. It means we can forgive them, but that doesn't mean we have to hang around with them.