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A Clarification of TOS in regards to naming users in posts.

Please do not tag, mention another user, or include identifiable data in any post that could be deemed negative, violent, or in any way derogatory.

If you have a problem with another useful do not call them out in posts or resort to name calling. While healthy debate is sometimes part if the fun, please keep in mind that violence toward other members , name calling, or other bashing could result in your account being reported. Please help us keep the site a positive place for all members by refraining from posting negative posts about other members.

Some things that are allowed:
Tagging users in a post in a celebratory manner, such as birthdays, thank yous, and other friendly and positive ways.

Tagging a user to reply to their message on your thread (within the comments only.)

We have seen an increase in reporting for the above mentioned negativity so please, rather than asking us to intervene take the steps to settle the matter in a peaceful way if possible or block the person. That is the quickest way to handle the negativity until we are able to address your reports

Thank you

lovingdead · 31-35, M

Isn't that what the tag thing is for?....or are you just saying not tag them to speak hate?

LookingForIt987 · 51-55, M

@Jessa29 [quote]right you can’t use it to bully or harass someone with it[/quote]

Again, though, that's [i]not [/i]what your post says. Your post declares that there is a blanket ban on putting somebody's username into a post. Period. I get that I'm very likely coming across as a pain in the ass, and I'm sorry for that. But words matter, especially when trolls can then wield those words against people they don't like by reporting a post that's nothing but positive. As an example.