I Want to Say Something

I have always dated older, I see no harm in it. In fact I am set to get married next year to my love whom is 18 years older than me. However, I have a plan for me, when I am left to this earth without him. It saddens me to see ladies my age marrying older and they are housewives. Have a career. You can still keep a good house with a career. What is the plan when he is gone? How will you make ends meet? How will you retire? Live?
I have a wonderful career and a wonderful man. We are partners. We have a wonderful adage we stick to to: he is by my side when I need him to stand there, in front of me when I need extra protection, and behind me when I need his support. The same with me to him.