I understand why people want everything "casual".

Because you can be lazy and selfish and then leave.

Nobody cares about your pleasure, much less your heart.

Menetics · 22-25, F

I think deep down everyone wants something that will last. We’re just scared to admit that because in doing so, we’ll have to talk about past trauma and be vulnerable.

AlienFox · F

@Menetics the last person I opened up to used it against me. It is not easy to be vulnerable anymore. Being cautious is very complicated.

Dillybob · 51-55, M

Yep. It's why they like being a loner sometimes too. Don't have to commit to anything.

AlienFox · F

@Dillybob I'm a loner because I'm sick of people using me. I'd happily commit, but that doesn't seem to be possible anymore.

Dino11 · M

No free lunch

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

Exactly

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