Why are all the women I meet such liars?

I've been told honesty and communication is key, and then low and behold, those same people lecturing ME; are lying out there ass. Pretending to care, only to be deceptive and using my honesty as a club to hurt me and others.

Can anyone help me understand? I don't feel I can trust anymore.

I feel like this is why many men become jaded towards opening up.