I Don't Trust Easily Anymore
Sometimes you just can´t open up to someone. Not because you don´t trust them. But because once you tell someone how you feel inside, you´re giving them permission to hurt you.
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If I confided in someone and the used that to hurt me. That someone would not be in my life any longer. And I would want to know the next person a little better before I trusted them. But we have to trust if we don't we turn into synics and become angry at everything.
Wisdom is always part of the outcome. But only if you see the lesson.@LadyHeartnMind:
@LadyHeartnMind: I meant you, like as we in general. From what I've read of yours you have learned a lot and are quite wise. It's ok to be you.
I know, I'm very much the same. But many want me to be someone else!@LadyHeartnMind:
I've had people in my life that I have to worry about. So what the think and want matters to me, because I make them matter. And I'm happy, they are also supportive. It's a fine line when you're a partner, a parent, and a grand parent. @LadyHeartnMind:
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@JoanieNewHampshire: You misunderstood me. I don´t care about what others may think about me...who don´t know me. I love my family and keep them near. My post was a general statement, applying to nobody in particular, everybody in general. A philosophy in life, so to say. Or just thinking aloud-.