I Am Learning To Trust No One And Rely On No One But Myself

I feel like I've just been broken down and left for nothing so many times that it's almost impossible for me to think positively of anyone who comes my way. I feel like i can't even trust anyone on here now! The one place i actually felt a little safe on was the place that i got lied to ironically! I feel like I'm never going to be good enough for someone. Theres always going to be something. People always take advantage of me or treat me as if I'm invisible. And theres not much i can do about it. I just want to be someone's reason. Someone's everything. Someone's passion. Someone's.

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Mamapolo2016 · F

I wish I could comfort you but all I can do is offer what I've learned in 67 years.

1) Both trust and love take much longer than a youtube video. If they don't, nine times out of ten they end in disaster.

2) Even though you're lonely, don't love without reason. You are a valuable human being and the fact that somebody likes you isn't reason to be grateful. EXPECT to be liked. Even though you've been hurt, don't doubt without reason. Nobody wants to be punished for somebody else's sins.

3) Ease into it. Don't rush. There's no hurry. If they get away, they would have gone anyway.

4) Don't invest more in someone than you can afford to lose.

5) Maybe most importantly, the best food isn't served at fast food joints. Those target what people in a hurry with less money will accept as food. You may not be everybody's cup of tea, but if you watch and wait and are patient, you will find someone who has been looking for somebody just like you.

LyricalOne · F

You probably shouldn’t trust anyone here. But you teach people how to treat you. Be your own reason and don’t allow anyone to treat you like a doormat.

SW-User

I get what you are saying. Have been there.

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