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I Am Too Trusting, Yet Don't Trust At All

Haven’t heard from my boyfriend in a couple days he text here or there lately he doesn’t respond at all his excuse is that he’s really tried from work(military) and he’s going through something... but don’t shut me out that’s not fair don’t shut me out I sent a text asking was he ok no response then I check snap chat he’s up there posing .. everything has been good but now I’m starting to rethink everything and it’s onlt been 2 months apart of me just wants to call It quits because I’m tired of putting in the effort just to get nothing back but then I don’t wanna give up so quickly but what can I do If he’s not saying anything to me at all the only time he will say something I feel like anyway is if I kinda threaten the relationship .. and I feel as if he’s doing this because he knows how Iam about him
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Why not just get busy with something else? Don't get in touch with him for awhile. Don't complain or threaten the relationship, just get [i]busy[/i] and communicate with him little or not at all. If he ignores it, then you can know it's not a romance from his point of view. If he asks why you haven't been in touch often, tell him about whatever you've been busy with. Focus on your own life, not on him. If he ignores you, become (genuinely) too busy to think about him much.
PrettyGyal23 · 26-30, F
@greenmountaingal that’s what I’m going to do it’s not fair to myself just not going to contact him and do me
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@PrettyGyal23 Don't give in to your adolescent love fantasies and contact him. Find something better to do. Talk to him, occasionally, if he calls; be brief, polite, superficially friendly and let him know you'd like to see him sometime...but you are just sooo busy.
PrettyGyal23 · 26-30, F
@greenmountaingal I don’t even want to do that because at this point I’m being ignored purposely so if he does contact me cool but I will not reach out I did enough of that
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PrettyGyal23 · 26-30, F
@Pianist1234 well I’m no longer going to contact him if I’m his so called girlfriend and he wants to talk he will reach out
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