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I Have Trust Issues

I don't have any problem with what they call perverts. I can read them right away to set me a strategy on how to deal with them. Perhaps I have encountered some and to my personal experience, the ones I pre judged as perverts turned out be the respectful, kind, meek and humble people.

You know why I have become so paranoid on sm?

[b]Clutches of Evil. [/b]

Connect the dots....

Have you experienced group/mob hate?
Have you been slandered?
Have you experienced betrayal?
Have you been misunderstood of intentions and never given a chance to explain yourself?
Have you ever been labeled as the jealous one, the liar, the drama queen, the catfish, lacking in loyalty?
Have you ever been spit on with the nastiest of nasty words? Even in real life, I have not experienced such.
Have you ever been spied on or scrutinized, and people feast on every little inconsistency or flaw they see in you...
Lastly, multiple profiles....

Nobody deserves such treatment.

Every bad experience compels each one of us to put up walls, so thick and wide. The stones of it are laid in scorn and plastered high with pride on both sides. There's only silence to heal the wounds.
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Magenta · F
So true.
But I have effed up too and far from proud of myself at times.

As far as trusting...I don't worry about it ether way tbh. I see it more like expectations. I just accept that humans really aren't trustworthy. :-)
SW-User
@Magenta Aww....thank you so much M for dropping by. 🙏 Tbh, I was keeping quiet because I thought something was "off" between us. I am looking for the opportunity to say the right thing.😓

The topic I posted, we talked about it then, a lot....I know, we both know how it feels.

Happy thanksgiving, my friend. I am soooo grateful right now.
Magenta · F
Hmm it's me not you. ;-)
I withdraw sometimes, close off and keep people at a long arms length. It's nothing personal, just my personality. I prefer a lot of space, or my own space too much prob.

Yes, but I've not discussed my particular situation.

Happy Thanksgiving to you as well! 🤗
SW-User
@Magenta It was me, M. Sorry.
I am like you, too. I tend to shut down.
Yes, we talked about a lot of things in general, nobody in particular.