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I Have Trust Issues

I don't have any problem with what they call perverts. I can read them right away to set me a strategy on how to deal with them. Perhaps I have encountered some and to my personal experience, the ones I pre judged as perverts turned out be the respectful, kind, meek and humble people.

You know why I have become so paranoid on sm?

[b]Clutches of Evil. [/b]

Connect the dots....

Have you experienced group/mob hate?
Have you been slandered?
Have you experienced betrayal?
Have you been misunderstood of intentions and never given a chance to explain yourself?
Have you ever been labeled as the jealous one, the liar, the drama queen, the catfish, lacking in loyalty?
Have you ever been spit on with the nastiest of nasty words? Even in real life, I have not experienced such.
Have you ever been spied on or scrutinized, and people feast on every little inconsistency or flaw they see in you...
Lastly, multiple profiles....

Nobody deserves such treatment.

Every bad experience compels each one of us to put up walls, so thick and wide. The stones of it are laid in scorn and plastered high with pride on both sides. There's only silence to heal the wounds.
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newbie · 31-35, F
I don't think I have experienced as bad behavior as what you mention in your post, but when I come across someone insensitive and rude I still try to reply in a measured and polite way. usually they either change and show their positive side or just go away after a short while.

maybe I've just been lucky so far, but i suggest you try this approach too if you feel you have issues communicating.
SW-User
@newbie Hi,
I am also like that.🙂 I can be very straightforward as I say things as I see them, and yet respectful. Sometimes I encounter trollish comments, but it's okay, I know how to put humor into it. However, the experiences I mentioned above are the aftermath of friendships gone bad. Like you met people you thought were good in the beginning, but turned bad in the end. There are just bad people around.😔

I think you are a nice person. I wish you would not encounter such bad experiences on line, because when you do, the memories stay. More so, it changes you.
newbie · 31-35, F
@SW-User i think the most important is to stay open and try not to become withdrawn and scared. Otherwise it's like the bad experience and the bad people have won! i don't know if they ever change, but we must hope that we can also meet good and positive people both online and in real life, right?

so far i guess i've been more lucky than you. or maybe you're just a super sensitive nature?