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Magenta · F
Ha. Saying it like it is. Don't forget to label them a narcissist as well.
Therealsteve · 31-35, M
@Magenta Yes I find that one particularly annoying. I was actually put through the abuse cycle of someone with NPD/BPD for nearly a year. It actually messed up my head, constant nightmares, my mind literally fogged out a lot of the chaotic abuse and it turned out her life was just her targeting foreign guys to put through the same cycle and her storming out of entry level job after entry level job because she couldnt handle human interaction. And engaging in her BPD addiction to the exclusion of the rest of life.
And then people just throw the "narcissist" label at anyone.
And then people just throw the "narcissist" label at anyone.
Magenta · F
@Therealsteve Yes many do. It annoys TF out of me. I believe a lot of it is projection of their own narcissistic behavior.
I don't care if they've watched 500 You tube videos and researched it for years, they are NOT a psychologist or a diagnostician.
I don't care if they've watched 500 You tube videos and researched it for years, they are NOT a psychologist or a diagnostician.
@Magenta They watch and take advice from Dr. Phil who calls every alleged abuser (usually the male) a narcissist. Ironically, unlicensed "Dr" Phil is the biggest "narcissist" of them all. 😂
Therealsteve · 31-35, M
@SmileOnYourBrother Yeah. In order to be a narcissist you have to put people through the idealize, devalue and discard phases and be unable to pair bond and continuously go through that cycle instead of bonding. Nowadays if anyone does anything someone doesn't like, it's "narcissism".