Idk if this fear makes any sense but

I'm scared of getting rich before I find my other half...

Apparently, most women are not interested in being with a poor guy, and once I make it and become rich, I wouldn't be interested anymore since most of them would be just aiming for my money, and I'll just age and die alone.

Conclusion: I have an excuse for staying poor until now lol

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Diotrephes · 70-79, M

@SW-User Money issues are responsible for the majority of arguments in a marriage. So, what you need to determine is whether you and your proposed spouse have the same or similar attitudes toward money.

For instance, are you a saver and she is a spender?

Does she follow a budget and you are an impulse buyer?

Would you grow to hate her if she made more money than you?

Would you follow her if her career opportunities are better than yours?

Think about questions like that and learn and understand the other person's values before making a commitment.