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Men should never weigh you down indefinitely

Your man comes to a time of being laid off.
Understandable.
When your man becomes a leach from your income and then plus…
When you can’t even renovate an apartment without being screamed at..


Leave that man and never look back.


More so advice to myself the next day.
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Livingwell · 61-69, M
What if you were laid off? Should he kick you to the streets for being a "leach"? A true relationship means working together through thick and thin. Yes.. finances will be tight and sacrifices will be made. I say he dodged a bullet.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
I find it ironic that the same standard doesn't apply to women.

I use to take in women and got it when I came back into my own home. With nothing done around the place. Fortunately they usually left. They used me to find their own place.
YoMomma ·
Sigh 🤐 yeah the being screamed at part is no fun.. i just realized what group you posted this in. I hope he is not physically attacking you as well as yelling at you 😐
Selah ·
They're inherently extractive. Idk how y'all live with them.
JustaBuddy · 41-45, M
100 percent agree
Tenletters · 31-35, MVIP
This is getting good
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IamBack · 31-35, M
@Classy that’s fair and now with this context I admit that I was too fast to jump the gun, for that, I apologize

I have zero respect for men who want to freeload like that, a relationship has to be a two-way street and when all that financial burden is put on you, then it’s frustrating for sure

You seem to have been doing a lot, so good on you for actually carrying all that weight 💪🏻
IamBack · 31-35, M
@greensnacks still doesn’t give you the right to label me as “misogynistic” and just interfering in a conversation throwing a bunch of labels at someone 🤷🏻‍♂
@IamBack Labeling someone's consistent behavior as misogynistic is only a natural, informed decision based on what I’ve observed from your actions on this platform.

You have previously -
Derailed conversations about women's suffering

Called OP (a woman may, I add) “toxic” for expressing anger over being screamed at or financially used. That's policing tone, a tactic used to silence women.

You first labeled her as a "toxic feminist", while asking from me to not label you. Claiming victimhood, while actively labeling others is manipulative and hypocritical.

Demanded from me not to share my firsthand experiences with men here because you felt they were generalizing, while using a completely off-tone and irrelevant analogy that contributed nothing meaningful to the discussion.

Lastly, I'm not interfering, this is a public platform and anything you post here is open for discussion and analysis to everyone as long as it respects the website policy.

 
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