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And I wish some people would just respect that. [I Value My Privacy]

Some of my peers asked me why don’t I set my status to in a relationship on my Facebook page. Also the other one said people are not gonna know you’re in a relationship unless you said it. I mean my family knows I’m in a relationship and they do too so why should I put it up there? My boyfriend doesn’t have Facebook and he doesn’t want me to share photos of us too much. And I’m going to respect his privacy and I don’t want any trouble online either so that’s why I have not been posting photos of him and I together too much. I’m gonna be dead honest, I don’t feel comfortable and some of my peers have had drama with their partners or whatever and some people broke up because of online rumors and stuff like that and friendships ended and someone accuse me of something to and made of rumors so that’s why I’m not going to post anything or set it to “in a relationship”. I’m not! Well I did, but I set it to “only me” only I can see it. If I don’t like that being being honest about my privacy I don’t respect that then that’s not my problem! I have the rights to my privacy and so does my boyfriend and I got to do what’s right for me. Sounds cruel but whatever.
What you choose to share on social media is your business. If they don’t like it, the can move along. It’s perfectly acceptable to tell people that some things and the reasons you do them, are none of their fucking business.
PetiteJulie01 · 22-25, F
@Pinkstarburst Thank you! That’s what I’m trying to tell them. Being whatever they do on their social media that’s their business. I’m allowed to not wanting to share any of that stuff and I’m doing it from my privacy and his property to. I think I sound rude but I’m not rude I’m just expressing how I honestly feel and I warned them I’m gonna be very honest. I’m not gonna let this shit happen with online drama and that’s why I refuse to post but I don’t want to it’s sometimes I gotta be mean to protect myself. Well not mean like on the names but being mean by refusing to share photos of my boyfriend and I am my status.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
Do not worry about social media its silly.
Its true that some people may take it as a sign that you still want guys online to freely try to hit on you but you know the reasons why.
Do what you want.
If you put in a relationship that dosen't really provide any infoso you could just update to that. You don't have to post pics or share names.
PetiteJulie01 · 22-25, F
@REMsleep thanks. I just wish that they understand that have the right to my privacy and I don’t need to be putting out what my boyfriend and I do.

 
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