Have you ever growned bored of someone? Like a partner?

I know people are human beings and we are not here for the sole purpose of entertaining anyone but I mean, have you ever felt like you already know everything about a person and like you don't really feel interested in spending time with them anymore? Like because you already don't feel they can bring anything to your life? Not saying this is my case or what I think of someone, it's just that a lot of people I know, would use similar words to express how they feel about their long time partners and I don't know, it perplexes me

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SammyJo · 51-55, F

How does it perplex you?

I was in a relationship with a woman who was, essentially, trying to be like me. At first it was kinda cool and then it just got boring. I fell out of love with her. Not her fault, just my perspective on our life, I guess.

My wife? She's a bit feisty, sensible and whilst we do have things in common there's a fair amount that separates us...but in a good way. She'd say the same about me - I'm not the easiest gal to live with - but we're never bored.

Maybe the differences, that round out the picture/perspective on life, are what make the differences?

🤔

SJD x

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