I Believe People Come Into Your Life For a Reason
[b](FYI This is not about sexuality being right or wrong. It is about me believing in people coming into my life for a reason) [/b]
So two guys walked into my life a month ago and they were SUPER similar it was crazy. Same skin color, same age, same background, same sexuality, and even same religion. What made them different though their thoughts on there sexuality. One thought it was okay to be gay and the other thought that is was wrong to be. I, of course am always going to be the middle man so I didn't really see why it was right or why it was wrong? I just saw their sexuality as is, like a fact about them. Would you really argue with another person about if the ground they were standing on was really the ground? No, you wouldn't say "No you are standing on the sky, not the ground!" It makes no sense and it is a fact that everyone can see that you are on the ground and not the sky. So of course with this mind set of just seeing things as they are, I had to ask why.
I don't want to have a huge debate if being gay is wrong or right so I am not going to tell you the conversion I had with them. I am just going to say both had very good reasons for choosing what they wanted. However, what it boiled down to was that the one who thought it was wrong. Was scared deep inside. Scared about others might do, scared about his family, and scared that his own god would hate him for it. The other, who said it was right, was just over being scared. Yes he was but he didn't care anymore because he wanted to be happy. He had the exact same issues and thoughts as, let's call him Mr. Wrong. Mr. Right was also scared of what people might do, what his family would do/say, and even what his own god might do to his soul when he dies. Yet, he just push forward to what makes him happy.
I am very grateful too meet these to people, that were identical until it came to there sexuality, because my cousin and his father where really bashing it out about this. The kid was for it while the father saw it as wrong. After they punched each other, I jumped right in. I basically got both of them to say, "I agree to disagree with you on this but I still love you" I would have not been able to do this if not for those two guys, Mr Right and Mr. Wrong. Two random people who walked into my life. So yeah, now think people do come into your life for a reason if you don't see that reason.
So two guys walked into my life a month ago and they were SUPER similar it was crazy. Same skin color, same age, same background, same sexuality, and even same religion. What made them different though their thoughts on there sexuality. One thought it was okay to be gay and the other thought that is was wrong to be. I, of course am always going to be the middle man so I didn't really see why it was right or why it was wrong? I just saw their sexuality as is, like a fact about them. Would you really argue with another person about if the ground they were standing on was really the ground? No, you wouldn't say "No you are standing on the sky, not the ground!" It makes no sense and it is a fact that everyone can see that you are on the ground and not the sky. So of course with this mind set of just seeing things as they are, I had to ask why.
I don't want to have a huge debate if being gay is wrong or right so I am not going to tell you the conversion I had with them. I am just going to say both had very good reasons for choosing what they wanted. However, what it boiled down to was that the one who thought it was wrong. Was scared deep inside. Scared about others might do, scared about his family, and scared that his own god would hate him for it. The other, who said it was right, was just over being scared. Yes he was but he didn't care anymore because he wanted to be happy. He had the exact same issues and thoughts as, let's call him Mr. Wrong. Mr. Right was also scared of what people might do, what his family would do/say, and even what his own god might do to his soul when he dies. Yet, he just push forward to what makes him happy.
I am very grateful too meet these to people, that were identical until it came to there sexuality, because my cousin and his father where really bashing it out about this. The kid was for it while the father saw it as wrong. After they punched each other, I jumped right in. I basically got both of them to say, "I agree to disagree with you on this but I still love you" I would have not been able to do this if not for those two guys, Mr Right and Mr. Wrong. Two random people who walked into my life. So yeah, now think people do come into your life for a reason if you don't see that reason.
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