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For some people to call me boring but them holding a conversation is jsut "yeah, no, okay". You have no right to judge others!

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Someone bothering you?
popmol · 22-25, M
@thinkingoutloud no, its just bothersome, on talking apps or dating apps, people are like "you're not interesting" but i'm like how is you day, did something fun today? what are your hobbies or what do you like to do. their answers "yes, no maybe, this hobby without extra context"

i'm like if i ask you how you are and not ask how are you in return i know its likely going to be a conversation like that.
"hey how are you today, i hope you had a nice saturday so far! have you had any fun plans prepared for this weekend?"
them:
"good, not much just planning on watching a show or going to the store."

i can't repsond to that well, but i try.
"ooh sounds nice a chill day at home, any particular series you are watching?"
or
"ooh just going to shop for the week or anyhting more fun?"

them.
"not particular or this show" where i ask them "is it any good, what do you like about it?" they say yes or no as a response.
or "no just going to the store for food or just a clothing shop."

i mean if that's how you conversation i'm trying to drag it along finding anything to talk about, scour their profile just to find anything to make a conversation happen.
but i get yes or no,

thats why here i only engage with people who engage with me :p
@popmol those are people looking to be entertained. Not to build relationships with.
popmol · 22-25, M
@thinkingoutloud i mean i try it might be like me hard to start but once i start going it gets real good but if thye put in no effort or give me anything to work with it stops.
but when they say i'm not interesting it like those people who only look on their phone during a date then say you're the problem
@popmol yep and they are not ready for you and the level of friendship you bring.
popmol · 22-25, M
@thinkingoutloud haha well such is the case!