I think this is important to be said.

I'm not a difficult person to get along with, I don't think. But I do have standards and I am sensitive about a person's wavelength and sincerity. I gravitate towards people I deem are decent to their own selves and to others, people with values they stick by and who are confident in their own skin. Because it took me a while to get here. And if I want to be better, then my circle needs adjusting too is what I learned.

I like clear goals and decent intentions, be it acquaintanceship, friendship, professional or more.

But the language of sincerity and how much interest one shows is easily seen with effort.
So I react as I deem fit. I hear your words but I watch your actions. The evidence to how much interest one has to someone or something is easily seen through effort and transparency of intentions.

Point is, as a woman who knows my worth and what I bring into anything, I don't accept any less than what I deserve. :)
I've got no problem adjusting people in my circle as needed.

Access to someone is not something to be taken for granted. I hope you realize that and that it applies not just to me, but to everyone else, even to your own self.

Thank you.