So, listen

I know I have a habit of talking about myself, particularly in one on one discussions.

I am very aware of it and it is a part of me I'm trying to change. I don't want to be self absorbed and I want to know and learn about other people.

So if I start getting too deep about me, just let me know. I usually recognize it and make changes, but sometimes, I'm too far in my head.

Apologies in advance and I'm trying to be better.

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Nightwings · 31-35, F

Oh I have that same habit! I'm always interested in listening to and learning about others, but I don't even realize I'm doing it.

Like now I'm literally doing it lol, and I think drawing parallels to my own experiences is just my way of connecting with people, like: I can empathize to this and that extend. =D

I wouldn't worry too much if I was you, I doubt it even comes across as self absorbed as you think.

It's the best when you click with someone and each person replies by talking about themselves concerning whatever topic. 😆