Men don’t like being viewed as pay pigs as much as women don’t like being thought of as a human flesh light.

When you reduce someone down to their lowest common denominator this base thinking takes dominance in thinking and discourse even if it’s not voiced.

The only answer I can think of to combat this is to put the needs of others first. If and when they don’t reciprocate, that’s on them. After a season however of being used it’s acceptable to move on if they can’t or won’t change. People seldom change for the better and even then it’s short lived